by Madeleine Lawes

- take your time. Unless you have a sky high sex drive - what's the hurry? Your body, and in particular your vaginal area, has just gone through an incredibly taxing experience. The last thing it needs is for 200lbs of man to be bearing down on it.

- talk, talk, talk. It is important you communicate with your partner and explain how you feel as well as understanding how he feels. If you don't feel ready for sex, tell him.

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