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Sight

Men love to be stimulated visually. They love nothing more than you wearing sexy lingerie or even a kinky outfit. This can sometimes lead to problems because women may feel like nothing more than a cheap sex object. Why do I have to put on stockings? Why do I have to wear a thong? Obviously if your partner is demanding you dress up every time you have sex, you should discuss the problem. But giving him a treat once a month doesn't really do any harm. And remember if you're dressing up him, you can tell him to wear anything you want in return. If you want him in a pair of tight black boxers, tell him. If you want him to dress as a fireman, tell him. Most men wont have a problem with it. Indeed most men will be more than happy to dress in a way that excites you.

One of the most common mistakes people make is to smother themselves in perfume or aftershave. In this instance less is certainly more. If you're using fragrance to cover up your body smell you are making a mistake. Obviously, if your have body odor you need to take a bath or shower. But the natural smell you produce during sex otherwise know as pheromones are what we are designed to be attracted to. Don't drown this scent of love in cheap perfume.

Hearing

Sound can be a huge contributor to great sex. The right song can help you make slow, gentle love or on the other hand have wild, passionate sex. It also stops your neighbours from hearing your intimate moments. Talking to each other during sex can also be important. However, what may be a huge turn on for one person may be a huge turn off for the next. Not every one likes to be called a 'dirty slut'. You have to find the type of bedroom talk you are both comfortable with. And then it really is good to talk.

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