Marriage Tip 42. Marriage can be hard

A long, happy marriage doesn't just happen. You need to work at it.

Don't expect an easy ride. You will have ups and downs.

There will be times when you cannot stand to be in the same room as your partner.

However, as long as you try to behave in a fair and rational manner, these low periods can be overcome very quickly.

If you work together, remembering how much you love one another, you can find a solution to any problem.

So put the hours in, make the effort - the result could be the happiness we are all searching for.