Marriage Tip 92. The blame game
Everything is your husband's fault. You're overweight because he
doesn't make you feel good about yourself. The kids are misbehaving
because he's not a good father. The dinner's burnt because he turned
the oven up too high. Stop it!
You're not being fair. Yes, he is to blame for some problems but
even the worst husband in the world isn't at fault for everything.
Take some responsibility yourself. Are you sure you're not just
picking on him because deep down you know it's your own fault?
Also, many problems and unfortunate occurrences are nobody's fault.
They just happen.
The important thing is to work together as a team to find a solution.
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