Marriage Tip 11. Don't be defensive

It's only natural to become defensive when someone makes a complaint against you.

You feel like you're being criticized or attacked so the barriers immediately go up.

However, this is a mistake, especially in married life.

You must be able to take criticism from your partner in calm, mature manner.

If you simply become argumentative or respond with a complaint of your own, not only will an argument ensue but your husband will become increasingly frustrated.

So be willing to accept when you're in the wrong, resolve the issue and move on.

More marriage tips

Don't have unrealistic expectations of what your married life will be like.

Spend quality time together by sharing some hobbies or activities with your partner.

Be prepared to make certain sacrifices if you want to have a long and happy relationship.

Without honesty and truthfulness no marriage or relationship will survive very long.

Even someone who's been married for forty years appreciates a few compliments.

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