Marriage Tip 11. Don't be defensive

It's only natural to become defensive when someone makes a complaint against you.

You feel like you're being criticized or attacked so the barriers immediately go up.

However, this is a mistake, especially in married life.

You must be able to take criticism from your partner in calm, mature manner.

If you simply become argumentative or respond with a complaint of your own, not only will an argument ensue but your husband will become increasingly frustrated.

So be willing to accept when you're in the wrong, resolve the issue and move on.