Marriage Tip 39. It's not a competition
Some people find it difficult to keep their competitive nature out
of their marriage.
They feel an intense need to win every argument and take the lead
in every situation.
They must come out on top, regardless of the consequences.
There are two points to remember here. Firstly, you and your spouse
are a team, a partnership. Whatever happens to one of you will ultimately
effect the other person too.
Secondly, your husband is the most important person is your life.
Do you really want to make them lose all the time? Is your desire
to win more important than their feelings?
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