Marriage Tip 93. Assume at your peril

A wise, if somewhat crass, man once said, "assumption is the mother of all cock ups." He wasn't wrong, practically when it comes to married life.

Above all else, communication is they key to a happy marriage.

And in many ways, assumption is the polar opposite of communication.

By not talking or asking questions, you're decision making process becomes based on little more than a guess. And a wrong guess in married life invariably leads to an argument or disagreement.

Sometimes it is safe to assume we know what your partner wants. After all you know them probably better than anyone else on the planet.

But you should always think about the potential consequences of your actions first.

More marriage tips

Don't have unrealistic expectations of what your married life will be like.

Spend quality time together by sharing some hobbies or activities with your partner.

Be prepared to make certain sacrifices if you want to have a long and happy relationship.

Without honesty and truthfulness no marriage or relationship will survive very long.

Even someone who's been married for forty years appreciates a few compliments.

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