Over the last twenty years marriage has been in gradual decline. Over 160,000 people in the UK sought divorce last year and less than half the number of weddings took place compared to the early 1980's. Marriage is no longer viewed as necessary legally or socially for modern couples. However, for many women marriage is the ultimate step in a relationship where two people highlight and strengthen their love and commitment to one another. However, even the perfect couple will experience ups and downs in married life. The question is how you deal with them.